Makeup By Kim Porter

Hair Care

Hair Chronicles Part I – Implementing a new regimen for healthy, stronger relaxed hair

 

Hair after washing. Thin area at the crown.

 

 
 

Off and on, I’ve been having trouble with this one spot at the crown of my head.  The area for the most part was itchy, dry, flaky,and the hair was very brittle, and broke off easily.   The problem area came and gone.  The hair would grow back, except thinner than the other areas.   Since I decided to grow my hair out, and I want it to be healthier, I eventually ended up going to the dermatologist in February to see what the root of the problem is (no pun intended).   Prior to going to the dermatologist, I diagnosed myself with having follicle damage, but, that isn’t the case.

Without a healthy scalp, you will not have healthy hair, so my dermatologist prescribed Loprox shampoo, which I have to use twice per week for four weeks, as well as Olux-E Foam.  I use the shampoo, but not the foam (too many side-effects and I breast feed).   When the dermatologist said I had to wash my hair 2 times per week, I cringed.  Then she said I needed to stretch between my relaxers… Ahh!  You know how us brown girls are with our hair.  I thought to myself, ‘What the heck am I going to do with my hair in between washes?’   

Before I get into what I do, and how I do it, I would just like to say that washing my hair twice per week isn’t so bad afterall.  It’ a tedious process but, I’m loving the results.

1. Pre-Poo

Before heading to the dermatologist, I perused the LongHairCareForum.com for tips on dealing with my issue.  I came across many, many forum discussions on “pre-pooing” and its importance.  It sounds a little funny, and seeing the term actually made me giggle (a little).   I also learned about co-washing (cleansing your hair with conditioner), which products to avoid, and using ayurvedic powders to take care of your hair.   So, with all of the knowledge I gained from the LHCF, I started the following regimen:

1st I started off pre-pooing with Burt’s Bee’s Avocado Butter Pre-Shampoo Treatment, I liked how it left my hair, but, you don’t get much use out of the product so I ended up making my own… using it will get expensive!

 

 

Shikakai, Amla Powder, Neem Pre-Poo Mix

My Current Pre-poo Mix Contains

Organic Root Stimulator Olive Oil Replenishing Conditioner

Shikakai Powder – Strengthens,  cleanse

Amla Powder – prevents hair loss, darkens hair, conditions

Neem Powder – anti-bacterial, dandruff

Peppermint Essential Oil – Stimulates hair growth, circulation

Rosemary Essential Oil – Stimulates Hair Growth (Do NOT use if pregnant)

Tea Tree Essential Oil – Good for dandruff, oily hair, anti-bacterial

Virgin Unrefined Coconut Oil

Extra Virgin Olive Oil

2.  Shampoo

After I pre-poo either for 30-minutes or over night (using a plastic cap), I rinse it out with warm water, and shampoo with the Loprox

3.  Condition – Protein

My current protein conditioner is Salerm 21 B5 Silk Protein Leave-In Conditioner.  I don’t use it as a leave-in, instead, I use it as a mask and leave it on my hair for 5-minutes then rinse.

*Sometimes I mix it with Silicon mix

4.  Deep Condition (DC)

After I rinse the protein treatment out I deep condition (sometimes under the dryer) with a moisturizing conditioner.  Currently, I’m using Aubrey Organics Honey Suckle Rose Conditioner.  This was love after first use! Seriously, this is great stuff!!!  I recommended it to all of my friends and my sisters. 

5.  Apple Cider Vinegar Rinse

Once every other week (or less) I rinse my hair with a solution of cold water and apple cider vinegar. 

6.  Leave-in Conditioner (moisturize)

First I apply 1-2 pumps of WEN Pomegranate Cleansing Conditioner (adds slip & perfect for when I need to wrap or rollerset my hair), then I spray on some I use Creme of Nature Argan Oil Strength & Shine Leave-in Conditioner.

I need more WEN. I’m down to my last drop.  I want to try WEN Fig.  It’s so freakin expensive though!!!

7.  Apply a sealant

After you mositurize your hair, you’re supposed to seal it with an oil to lock-in the moisture.  I use a serum from Mizani to do that. I apply it all over my hair, especially on my ends.  Even when air drying my hair, I like how Mizani Thermasmooth Smooth Guard Smoothing Serum leaves my hair.

8.  Style

Here is whether I either roller set, wrap, or air-dry my hair.  Weekends are when I tend to do the roller setting since it takes the longest for me to do, especially with a 11 month old crawling around getting into everything.  Weekdays I will either wrap my hair with Wen & use the black Sanek Mega Wrap Strip, or I will air dry it – hair pulled back, with the strip around my edges.  I usually wear my hair in a “stingy” ponytail as my friend Janique calls it.  I have a little bit for a mini bun.  I’m working on it .:lol:. 
 

 

My hair after wrapping & air drying. No heat applied.

 

I must admit that washing my hair twice a week is tedious, especially with all of the steps, but, it’s been worth it. I hardly use any heat (no flat iron in 6 weeks), which is great for the hair.  One day I missed pre-pooing, and I could tell the difference; my hair just did not feel as soft.  It’s been 6 weeks since my last relaxer, and it’s usually around this time I am setting up to get my touch-up.  My goal is to make it to 10 weeks or longer.  I hope I can make it. So far so good. 

I also want to henna my hair, but, it takes a long time.  I need to reserve it for a long weekend.

 

Do you have a strict hair care regimen?

Do you set hair goals?

What are your favorite hair products for healthy hair (natural or relaxed)

 

Haul: Soap.com and Hair Products

Whenever I need something immediately, and a store is out of reach or they do not carry the item, I end up purchasing my daughter’s items from Diapers.com.  Soap.com is affiliated with Diapers.com, and since I made a purchase from Diapers, they sent me a code for $10 off my purchase to use on my first Soap.com order.  I love using Diapers & Soap because if you order before 6 or 8 pm, you are guaranteed to receive your order the very next day!

I ended up purchasing CeraVe Foaming cleanser, my friend Shannon recommended it to me after experiencing amazing results.  Also, my dermatologist recommends it. Then I saw K. J. Bennett recommends it too!  I said to myself, ‘Why not?’  I was immediately sold.  CeraVe was sold out for a few weeks on the site, and I finally got it this week.  I’ve been using it for a few days now with my Clarisonic mia, and I love!  I ended up getting it for $1.99.

 

 

 

 

I also ended up purchasing Burt’s Bee’s Avocado Hair Treatment.  It’s a pre-poo.  I’ve been perusing the Long Hair Care Forum in hopes of reviving, and growing my hair.  I heard this was a good product to use.  I will definitely post results.

Burts bees avocado hair treatment
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Why didn’t anyone tell me the Long Hair Care Forum was so addictive?!?

 

Other products I ended up purchasing for my journey towards longer, healthier, relaxed hair include…

Silicon Mix Hair Treatment Conditioner 16 oz $7.99

Creme of Nature Argan Oil Leave-in Conditioner – $4.99

Essential Oils – Peppermint, Rosemary, Tea Tree

Unrefined Coconut Oil

Mizani ThermaSmooth Smooth Guard

 

 

 

 

 

Shic by Soketah Hair, Nail & Beauty Bar Grand Opening Event

 

 

Sunday, November 13, 2011 I attended the Shic by Soketah Hair, Nail and Beauty Bar’s  Grand Opening party to support my hair stylist (she’s been doing my hair since the 6th grade!)and her business partners on their newest business venture – a full-service beauty salon.  This new spot, unique to the area, is owned by four young African American women (and long-time friends) Keisha Farrell, Sonia Lashley (my hair stylist), Kristal Thomas and Jamilla Martin.  I’m very excited for these ladies.

Shic by Soketah brings something new and chic to the neighborhood.  Unlike its sister salon, Soketah Hair Divas (across the street), at Shic you are afforded the opportunity to literally let your hair down without being embarrassed because of a male presence.  You can enjoy getting your hair, nails, and makeup done in a relaxed setting.    You may view their service menu here.

Who has time to troop here, there, and everywhere  to get a mani/pedi, and do their hair?  Shic by Soketah solves that problem.  I like  the option of being able to, if needed, having all beauty services, even makeup appplication all in one place.  Very convenient, especially for today’s busy woman.

 

 

 

During this event, attendees were able to receive a free express design manicure, express eye makeup application by Billie J and gift bag with a donation of $10 or more in support of the Brooklyn Young Mother’s Collective.  Attendees were also given the opportunity to take advantage of deals such as 15% off all Redken beauty products. 10% off all Fiji beauty products. As well as being able to receive 20% off of an appointment for a future date if made the day o the event.

 

A portion of all of the grand opening afternoon sales will be donated to Brooklyn Young Mothers’ Collective (BYMC). BYMC provides ongoing case management and education advocacy services to disadvantaged young mothers to ensure that young mothers experience educational success and self-sufficiency.

 

The salon is the perfect setting for regular pampering sessions and is also equipped to handle group or private events such as birthdays, girls night out, corporate events, bridal parties and special occasions.  I’m hoping to host my first blog event there.

 

They had a cute cupcake display.  Cupcakes were made by Tonnie’s Mini’s and they were good!

 

 

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Hair Help: The Long & Short of it

Lately, I’ve been struggling with what I should do about y hair.  I cut it short April 26, 2008, and I LOVED it.  After I had my daughter this past March I decided to grow it out (see recent picture below).  Having it longer has definitely made my mornings easier since I just un-wrap it, and go. With the short hair cut, I’d have to worry about if a curl went flat, how to sleep so I don’t mess it up, getting it done weekly etc.  I loved it, but, it was high maintenance.  With a baby, it’s too much work for me right now.  Plus, winter is coming and I’d like to have something on my head this year to keep it warm, especially since I hate hats.

 

 

During my last hair appointment, which was two weeks ago, my hair stylist suggested I cut it again to get a more edgy look.  I agreed.  Now, I am like uggh do I really want to now? My issue is, my hair shed a TON after having my daughter.  My edges are somewhat non-existent; therefore, I’d have to go really short at the sides or make sure the cut leaves enough hair to cover it up.  I know I need something to make me look my age, and not a frumpy mom.  Maybe I can let it grow out more into a bob, and add some color for the Fall & Winter, and in the Spring/Summer, cut it short? My appointment is Saturday, and I STILL don’t know what to do.

This is where you come in!